7 Ways to Travel More in Retirement

Kiplinger

By Nick Wharton
December 12, 2017

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When it comes to ways retirees prefer to spend their time in retirement, travel often lands at the top of the list. The catch is, just because you’ve got a lot of time on your hands for travel doesn’t mean you have a lot of money. Still, it’s entirely possible to travel more in retirement with the right focus and with a few tips and tricks.

1. Take advantage of your flexibility

Without the constraints of work, one of the most valuable things that almost every retiree has in their arsenal is flexibility. Due to increased demand, flight and hotel prices go up at peak travel times, but often drop drastically outside of them. So when it comes to travel, being flexible about when you go can mean your travel budget will stretch a lot further than it would during peak times.

Costs in the off season are far cheaper for everything from flights and accommodations, to entrance fees and attractions. You may save so much that you’re even able to put some money aside for your next trip.

2. Use any discounts available

One of the great perks of being classed as a senior citizen is the wide range of travel discounts that you are now eligible for.

Organizations such as AARP offer a host of deals for members on rental cars, hotels, cruises, and flights, though you have to pay the annual membership fee to access them. There are also lots of travel-related companies that offer their own discounts that are free to access. Best Western's 10 percent discount for folks 55 and over, One Travel’s senior travel deals, and Amtrak’s senior program offering a 15 percent discount are just a few.

3. Try a house swap

There are lots of ways to get free or extremely cheap accommodations when you travel. But by the time you retire, you’re probably used to a certain amount of luxury and you don’t want to be couch-surfing or staying in hostels. If you have a permanent home that you’re willing to allow other people use, then house-swapping could be a brilliant option for you.

There are lots of house-swapping sites that make the process extremely simple and safe, and there are even a number specifically dedicated to seniors, such as HomeExchange50Plus.com. You just need to list your property with a description and photographs that show it off. Then you can explore the properties already listed by other members of the community before contacting them to arrange your perfect swap. Though you have to pay an annual fee to join these sites, it’s negligible compared the money you can save.

4. Go for longer and travel slower

Though this may sound counterintuitive, generally, the longer that you travel, the cheaper your average daily costs will become. Rather than trying to cram loads of activities and destinations into one vacation, plan to see just one place, and experience it more thoroughly. By staying put, you’ll spend less on transport to other destinations.

Because you’ve got a more leisurely schedule, when you do want to go somewhere nearby, you can take a slower city bus, for instance, rather than a pricey taxi. You can also negotiate discounts in many accommodations for longer stays. I’ve done this successfully many times and for stays over four weeks, I have managed to create savings of up to 50 percent.

5. Offer to house sit

Though house sitting is open to anyone, it’s a competitive market, so only the best profiles tend to get selected. Homeowners are looking primarily for trustworthy and considerate people to look after their homes while they're away, and being older generally helps to give you an air of reliability. Many people also like house sitters who have been homeowners, and will treat the home in the way they’d treat their own.

It’s similar to a house swap in that you get the use of a home for free, but you don’t need to have a house to reciprocate in return. Often you’ll be required to look after pets as part of the deal, but there is no cost other than the annual membership fee that sites like TrustedHousesitters charge. As with house swaps, you can save a significant amount of money through house sitting.

6. Downsize

Even though there are lots of ways to make travel more affordable, it still costs money. Money that not every retiree has lying around. But if you have a house that's bigger than you need, then you could be sitting on a golden nest egg.

Obviously the idea of downsizing would be to take advantage of any equity that you have in your existing property, which may be significant if you own the property outright. But even if you still have a mortgage, it may be possible to sell your home and buy a smaller one and still make a profit. You can then use this extra cash to fund your travels.

7. Prioritize travel

This is possibly the most important step to traveling more in retirement, and it’s a simple case of making it an absolute priority. One of the best ways to prioritize travel is to make a bucket list of all of the experiences you want to have and all of the places you want to visit. This will help to create a focus and provide you with a whole load of inspiration at the same time.

 

How to Split the Check

How to Avoid Splitting the Check Evenly When You Order Less Than Everyone Else

Jillian Kramer/Food and Wine

Jun 23, 2017

Photo by jacoblund/iStock / Getty Images

Photo by jacoblund/iStock / Getty Images

Friends afficionados will remember it well: Ross, Monica, and Chandler extravagantly eat beef carpaccio, grilled prawns, and Cajun catfish, while Joey, Rachel, and Phoebe, who are trying to save money, nibble on an appetizer-sized pizza, a side salad, and a cup of cucumber soup. When Ross splits the check, he says everyone owes $33.50. (This was 1995.) Phoebe pipes up, "uh-uh, no, sorry—not gonna happen. Sorry, but, cold cucumber mush for 30-something bucks? No. Rachel just had that little salad and Joey, with his teeny pizza. No." Her outburst inspires Ross to say they should each pay for what they had, but not without awkwardness.

Of course, while justified, Phoebe's pithy solution isn't the answer—but neither is breaking your bank to pay for a bottle of wine you didn't drink or an appetizer you didn't touch. So how do you deal with dividing a check over an inequitable meal?

If you know from experience that the dinner's organizer will likely encourage the other diners to simply split the check, you should be upfront with him before you even reach the restaurant, says Diane Gottsman, national etiquette expert, founder of The Protocol School of Texas, and author of Modern Etiquette for a Better Life. "Say, I'd love to join you, but I'm not the wine lover you are so I'm going to order separately," Gottsman suggests. No, it isn't the most comfortable conversation to have, but you won't be comfortable "stewing about the bill each time you go out, or building resentment towards your friends," she points out.

If you don't take this pre-restaurant proactive route, however, you still have options. When you sit down, consider letting your friends know you're on a tight budget, suggests Annette Harris, etiquette expert and founder of ShowUp! (However, Harris cautions, you shouldn't make this move if you're with your coworkers.) They may take your (not-so-subtle) hint.

You can also flag your server and say, "Please put my order on a separate check," Gottsman says. "The key here is to be preemptive—speaking directly to the server—and not making a big issue of your request." You can also try to make this arrangement before you walk into the restaurant, Harris says. "If you want to be discrete, call the restaurant in advance and ask the hostess if she could ask your server to split the check with your co-diner or diners."

Lastly, of course, you have an option to be a straight-shooter. Say something like, "Guys, I'm going to take care of my own tab. I don't have the same appreciation—or budget!—for your expensive bottles of wine," a short, to-the-point, and even light-hearted explanation your friends will understand, Gottsman says. "Some may follow your lead next time," she adds.

If you somehow get saddled into splitting the bill, there's not much you can do. "As the saying goes, you're a day late and a dollar [or way more] short," Harris says. "Trying to rectify the situation afterward is not a reasonable or realistic option." Think about it: do you really want to track down six dinner guests for the $1.30—or $8 total—they owe you? And "contacting the host to ask that they pay you the eight bucks might just damage your friendship or keep you off future invite lists," Harris says. "You have to ask is it worth it?"

Finally, remember: "There is nothing wrong with asking for your own check—as long as you do it upfront," instructs Gottsman. "When friends go out to dinner or drinks, unless you are clear, it's a given that most people will split the check and toss in their credit card at the end—which is perfectly fine, unless you're uncomfortable. Then it's up to you to take action in advance."

This article originally appeared in Foodandwine.com